{"id":20149,"date":"2015-03-07T01:58:27","date_gmt":"2015-03-07T09:58:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.backwoodshome.com\/blogs\/ClaireWolfe\/?p=20149"},"modified":"2015-03-07T01:58:27","modified_gmt":"2015-03-07T09:58:27","slug":"a-pair-of-weekend-reads-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/07\/a-pair-of-weekend-reads-2\/","title":{"rendered":"A pair of weekend reads"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/taxicabdepressions.com\/?p=2479\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>&#8220;A Few Thoughts on Current Events.&#8221;<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I wake up every day around two or three in the afternoon, make a cup of coffee and turn on the news, just waiting for the day when it finally happens, the day that something finally snaps, and I am listening to Sheppard Smith breathlessly trying to describe shaky video of a mob of 500,000 or 800,000 pissed off taxpayers that has invaded Washington and are lining every street in D.C., armed to the teeth, and erecting scaffolding on the National Mall.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, that\u2019s not how I think it is going to go, but I promise you\u2026 what can not go on, will NOT go on.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Some language NSFW.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/scott-dannemiller\/busy-is-a-sickness_b_6761264.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>&#8220;Busy is a Sickness.&#8221;<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>While I disagree with the &#8220;everything is a sickness&#8221; approach to problems, the article is otherwise spot on.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>In one experiment, participants were left alone in a room for up to 15 minutes. When asked whether they liked the alone time, over half reported disliking it.<\/p>\n<p>In subsequent studies, participants were given an electric shock, and then asked if they would pay money to avoid being shocked again. Not surprisingly, most said they would trade money to avoid pain. However, when these same people were left alone in a room for 15 minutes, nearly half chose to self-administer an electric shock rather than sit alone with their thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>You read that right.<\/p>\n<p>Voluntarily.<\/p>\n<p>Shocking.<\/p>\n<p>(Which is so not punny.)<\/p>\n<p>Think about what this means. Just being is so painful that we are willing to hurt ourselves to avoid it.<\/p>\n<p>And this is perhaps the saddest truth of all. I am created in the image and likeness of God, yet somehow that isn&#8217;t good enough for me. So I fill my Facebook feed and my calendar with self-important busyness to avoid just being. In the process, I not only miss out on the peace and beauty that lies within myself, but I also miss seeing that same beauty in others, because my manufactured urgency has covered it up with anxiety and worry.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;A Few Thoughts on Current Events.&#8221; I wake up every day around two or three in the afternoon, make a cup of coffee and turn on the news, just waiting for the day when it finally happens, the day that something finally snaps, and I am listening to Sheppard Smith breathlessly trying to describe shaky video of a mob of 500,000 or 800,000 pissed off taxpayers that has invaded Washington and are lining every street in D.C., armed to the teeth, and erecting scaffolding on the National Mall. Actually, that\u2019s not how I think it is going to go, but&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/2015\/03\/07\/a-pair-of-weekend-reads-2\/\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A pair of weekend reads<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20149","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-government","category-mind-and-spirit","ratio-natural","entry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20149","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20149"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20149\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20149"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20149"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20149"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}