{"id":5909,"date":"2011-06-10T08:56:04","date_gmt":"2011-06-10T15:56:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.backwoodshome.com\/blogs\/ClaireWolfe\/?p=5909"},"modified":"2011-06-10T08:56:04","modified_gmt":"2011-06-10T15:56:04","slug":"tales-and-tails-from-the-fair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/2011\/06\/10\/tales-and-tails-from-the-fair\/","title":{"rendered":"Tales (and tails) from the fair"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.backwoodshome.com\/blogs\/ClaireWolfe\/2011\/06\/10\/tales-and-tails-from-the-fair\/ladywithatail-small_0611\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-5910\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.backwoodshome.com\/blogs\/ClaireWolfe\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/LadywithaTail-SMALL_0611.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"LadywithaTail-SMALL_0611\" width=\"360\" height=\"428\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-5910\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/LadywithaTail-SMALL_0611.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.clairewolfe.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/LadywithaTail-SMALL_0611-252x300.jpg 252w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Took me a while, but I said I&#8217;d have tales (and tails) from the Mother Earth News Fair. So here are a couple.<\/p>\n<p>The young lady with the radiant smile is &#8212; you can tell! &#8212; a member of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usavanguard.com\/the-man-with-a-tail-1.1119850\" target=\"_blank\">furry community<\/a>. She wears her tail happily and presented me with a bushy faux wolf tail of my very own.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikifur.com\/wiki\/Furry\" target=\"_blank\">Furry folk<\/a> are <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/en\/wiki\/Furry_fandom\" target=\"_blank\">much misunderstood<\/a> and (you won&#8217;t be surprised) sometimes <a href=\"http:\/\/forum.teamxbox.com\/showthread.php?t=351446\" target=\"_blank\">discriminated against<\/a> for their playful self-expression. (The example at the last link happened on private property, so the security guards in question were probably within their rights &#8212; which doesn&#8217;t make them any less bigoted or stupid.)<\/p>\n<p><i>This<\/i> young lady had the guts to wear her tail while flying. Heroically alert TSAgents &#8212; who astutely realized that tail-wearing was Suspicious Behavior (exactly the sort of thing a terrorist might do to avoid calling attention to his Nefarious Plans!) &#8212; put her through two rounds of extra screening &#8212; and made her put her tail into a bin to be checked for traces of explosives. They just <i>knew<\/i> she had to be Up To Something. But what, they never figured.<\/p>\n<p>She was laughing about it. Not sure I could &#8212; although when you&#8217;ve got the panache to wear a furry tail, I suppose you&#8217;re prepared to smile at the world&#8217;s silliness.<\/p>\n<p>She also pulled from her bag the most dog-eared copy of <i>The Freedom Outlaws Handbook<\/i> I&#8217;ve ever seen. Dog-eared is good. Dog-eared is wonderful. It says: well-used and appreciated.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>A sadder tale came from a hospital admissions clerk who stopped by the BHM booth several times and spent a long time talking with us. <\/p>\n<p>Sigh. It seems as if the most discouraging workplace experiences come out of the medical profession these days &#8212; though part of hers could have come from any corporatized workplace.<\/p>\n<p>She told me she works in a small hospital known for its excellent customer service. They&#8217;ve received many compliments not only on the quality of their care but the friendliness of their staff. <\/p>\n<p>Management, deciding that friendliness is A Good Thing, demanded that everybody in the place attend classes on how to give cheerful, smiling customer service. Then they instituted a policy encouraging employees to report each other for any breach of cheerfulness.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she says, she observes her fellow workers walking across the parking lot looking glum or blank or merely preoccupied, but the moment they cross the threshold &#8212; slap! &#8212; on goes the artificial smile. And eyes dart here and there in case Big Brother is looking.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Along with politically correct cheerfulness goes a fading regard for the real individuals. As she talked about one incident, this medical worker (who, like so many, wants desperately to get out of her profession but doesn&#8217;t yet know how) started to cry. At the time, I didn&#8217;t understand the real reason for the tears, though what she described was awful on several levels.<\/p>\n<p>Her small, rural hospital was overwhelmed one night when victims of a horrific industrial accident were rushed in. Everybody on late-night duty &#8212; receptionists, nurses, doctors &#8212; performed heroic work, struggling to stabilize gruesomely injured men and women and keep them alive for airlifts to a larger hospital.<\/p>\n<p>Later, her boss showed appreciation by emailing a generic thank you &#8220;to all who were on duty that night.&#8221; There were only a handful on duty. They have names. The managers knew them. I thought the woman was crying from indignation at the slight.<\/p>\n<p>When she came back to buy more BHM books she told us one of the victims had been her daughter-in-law. Who didn&#8217;t survive. Managers knew that, too.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>I may have more cheerful stories from the fair later. There were many of those. The fair itself was great, as Dave and I already mentioned, and it was a chance for several meetings with warm, encouraging &#8220;friends I&#8217;ve never met.&#8221; Dave could tell some tales &#8212; about what a hit BHM is on (of all places) Long Island &#8212; about the couple who showed up toting a copy of BHM issue #1.<\/p>\n<p>But the stories of these two booth visitors cried out to be shared, while other encounters were more personal.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Took me a while, but I said I&#8217;d have tales (and tails) from the Mother Earth News Fair. So here are a couple. The young lady with the radiant smile is &#8212; you can tell! &#8212; a member of the furry community. She wears her tail happily and presented me with a bushy faux wolf tail of my very own. Furry folk are much misunderstood and (you won&#8217;t be surprised) sometimes discriminated against for their playful self-expression. 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