No, that definitely did not go well.
I awoke from a general anesthetic Thursday morning to discover that they hadn’t performed the minor surgery I’d signed on for. Beyond my skills, the surgeon told me shortly. I didn’t see a sign of how bad it was until I was poking around in there. Really. So sorry.
Don’t worry. This isn’t a case of “We’re sewing you shut and sending you home to die.” More like “We’re referring you to some specialist you can’t afford even with insurance and if said specialist slips up you’ll have major quality of life issues until you croak.”
I spent the next 30 hours in bed feeling sorry for myself. Then I wrote down all the bad stuff I was feeling (always helps to do that), picked Ava up from Furrydoc’s Doggie Hotel, took her for a vigorous walk, and got on with life.
Until recently, I’ve managed to avoid doctors for decades at a time. I’m now being reminded of why that was such an excellent policy.
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On other topics: Haverwilde asked in comments why I found parts of Trump’s agenda scary. Let me count the ways.
First: That wall. Any wall along the U.S. southern border will be, at most, a minor inconvenience to people wanting to get in. They’ll go through it, under it, around it by sea, or even via Canada. Coyotes will bribe border guards to let their parties through it. But you start building walls around a country and pretty soon somebody will use those handy walls to try to keep citizens in.
First-and-a-half: The promised mass roundups of illegals that go along with the wall building. You don’t round up several million people without affecting millions more and without affecting the rights of all innocent people. What kind of ID verifications must be implemented to separate illegals from legals? How many lying informants can you expect to report on people they don’t like? How easily can you prove your own right to live here — especially if you have dark skin? How much do you value your neighbors?
Second: That big standing army the founders warned us against. If Trump plans to be less warlike than Clinton and all her neocon pals (a good idea), what are all those troops going to do? I give you three guesses.
Third: While this isn’t specifically listed in that linked agenda (which after all covers only Trump’s plans for his first 100 days), the man loves the idea of torture. Whether or not he places a torturer and cover-up artist atop the CIA, Trump has no understanding of what the Bill of Rights and human decency allow and he thinks you can do anything to anybody in order to “win.”
Fourth: Also not explicitly in the agenda … He’s already shaping up to conduct DC business as usual. That’s not unexpected of course. But it’s always scary.
Oh, granted I find some of Trump’s wishlist great, as far as government business goes. The term limits. The ban on going from office to lobbyist. The hiring freeze. The O’care repeal (which he’s already backing off on). The optimistic tax changes. And granted I’d rather have Trump than Hillary when it comes to 2A issues — though at heart he’s an anti-gunner and at heart and soul he’s a weasel who’d change his mind and break his promises tomorrow.
So at this point … better Trump than Hillary. But.
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I also do not think that under Trump or anybody else this sort of thing will change: It appears that, at one point, the FBI may have operated half the known kiddie porn sites in the world.
And that, of course, is just another of those tip-of-the-iceberg glimpses of the USA’s uber-government.
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Meanwhile, Historian (a sometime member of the Living Freedom Commentariat and occasional blogger over at The Zelman Partisans), is hoping to get Trump’s attention regarding the threat of manmade EMPs and natural Carrington events. Good luck with that, Historian.
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I mentioned a while back that I’d been to a small-town preparedness expo that turned out to be much better than expected. One of the most interesting displays was by a regional search & rescue group. I liked them of course because they had a cool dog there (Ava should learn to be so laid-back and well-behaved). And I learned some new, though unsurprising, things (for instance, how difficult it can be to search for lost children, who may hide from searchers, either fearing they’re in trouble or fearing strangers).
But one of the best aspects was the array of extremely compact emergency survival gear they had on display. They use these items themselves to be able to render on-the-spot aid and comfort without having to weigh themselves down while searching. They also recommend this gear for hunters and others going into the wilderness for short trips that may unexpectedly turn into longer ones.
I’ve placed some of this gear into a pair of Amazon Native Ads below for your perusal. If you can’t see the ads, sorry. But they contain items like portable tents and hammocks, all-weather pens, paracord bracelets, disposable rain ponchos, multi-purpose bandages, and even an outdoor sewing kit.
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So sorry to hear about this, Claire! I hope it all works out for you in the end! I’ll keep you in my prayers.
My wife has cancer and has been fighting it since January 2014, so we’ve spent a lot of time at the hospital. We’re fortunate to have a great place to get it treated, right in town, 20 minutes from us at the Wilmot Cancer Center.
And there’s my emergency tent and tarp and sewing kit. Thanks, Claire.
I hope you you find that specialist and the operation is routine for him/her.
Blessings,
Bill
Claire,
I’m pretty sure that if you mention what’s wrong “we” can find someone who can fix it for you.
For example, medical care in Thailand (my wife’s native land) is up to “Western” standards, but still drastically less expensive than it is in the US. Depending on what the issue may be, the added cost of a plane ticket to the medical care might still be cheaper than a procedure in the US.
Let me know if I can help….
So sorry about another bad run in with the medical tyrants. Personally, I would refuse to pay them anything. If the surgeon was not qualified to do that task, he/she should have known it from the start and never accepted the job. In fact, I’d be tempted to sue him/her for malpractice… or at least breach of contract.
Well, damn. That sucks. I imagine they’ll still bill you. But I’ll hope there’s some financial recourse. If there’s any plus side, you know more than you did before, which is, I suppose, a mixed blessing.
I’m probably not as down on Trump as a lot of people, but that’s because I think he’ll be ineffective in most of his policy pursuits. I’m enjoying a bit of schadenfreude, because his nomination was a slap to the establishment Republicans, and his election was a slap to the establishment Democrats. And I hold out some hope that we’ll be hearing a whole lot less about Hillary Clinton.
Anyone who promotes a wall along our southern border should have to ride the route, Pacific to Gulf, on horseback. Take side tours of the tunnels already dug under the border, and take a cruise on one of the submersibles smugglers use to bypass it.
What the military needs to do is stand down for a while. Bring them home. Rest, train, reequip.
“What? You’re an isolationist?”
“Nope. There are many ways to relate to other countries, not involving lethal force.”
I spent the next 30 hours in bed feeling sorry for myself.
That sounds like a reasonable time for a respite.
We’re having survival expos where I live too. And the company that used to put on our gun and knife show now bills it as a preparedness gun and knife show. Heh.
Sorry to hear that, oddly, the second time in a month where I heard someone got opened up only to hear, oops, need a specialist here. Whatever happened to the art of diagnosis?
As for the Donald, maybe not a WW3 starter, fortunately, but probably wrongheaded in every other aspect. Wait until the long-suffering working (or wannabe working) people find Trump is a good listener but clueless or deluded or uncaring about what might actually help them.
As Kunstler says, it’s all coming down. Too bad it’s in my declining years when I’m medically hassled and not up to even modest survival living.
I’m not sure that Obamacare CAN be completely gotten rid of at this point. Waving the Presidential Pen and saying “NO MORE! Go back to how you were!” just won’t work, the system has been screwed with to much.
I would REALLY like to see some changes though. Like, getting rid of the penalty for not having health care (cause its stupid, and not doing what they wanted anyway). Or hell, most of the penalties involved, cause again, stupid and not helpful.
No, going “back” to where health care was 8 years ago isn’t possible, even if it were desirable. Just as with the elimination of all the mandatory and other idiotic actions of the non-voluntary government. And that’s because far, far too many people see such things as health care, housing, so much more as a “right” that must be provided for them by government, one way or another. And they either don’t care or don’t know that they actually do pay for it… eventually. Until people see that, understand that, and accept full responsibility for their own lives and families, that’s not going to change no matter who is “president.”
The first payment on that reality is hitting now. “Insurance” has little or nothing to do with honest availability of health care, and nothing at all to do with “affordable.” Health care professionals are leaving the field in droves, daily, so even if Trump were to pull the bunny out of the magic hat and restore all healthcare to pre-Medicare systems and costs … a whole lot of people would STILL not be able to find a competent doctor or health care at a price they could afford… unless all other tax and regulation insanity was repealed as well.
Not happening. Far too many people still think they have a “right” to what others produce – a “right” to dictate how, when and why it is produced as well. That’s what has to change.
So, even an outright repeal of all aspects of Obummercare won’t solve the problems.
So sorry that happened, Claire, though thanks for the update. There are few things more frustrating than actually going through all the scary prelims, going under general anesthetic, then waking up to “yeah, we cut you open and poked around in there, but we couldn’t fix it.” Frustrating, also painful.
Give us a heads-up on the fundraiser, and we’ll make sure the word gets spread.
Yikes! Sorry to hear about your encounter with the quack. Sure seems like it’s getting harder to find qualified medical help.
So sorry to hear that. I hope it works out well in the end. Keep us informed and let us know if there’s anything we can do.
Thank you, all who expressed good wishes, sympathy, or chagrin.
rochester_veteran, my best to you and your wife. One of the benefits of living in civilization is access to cancer treatment if you need it. Here, cancer patients not only have to suffer the agonies of chemo and radiation, but five-hour round trips to reach treatment centers. (Fortunately my problem isn’t cancer.)
LowKey — Good reminder on medical tourism. For me, the first and best offshore choice would be Panama, which even has a Johns Hopkins-affiliated hospital. Thailand, though I’d love to go there for other reasons, is too pricey even to get to. But I know about good medical care at less-than-US prices.
For the moment, though, I am simply not going to think about doctors or surgery or anything related. I’m going to cancel the post-non-surgical appointment, re-double my personal health maintenance efforts, eat well, take supplements, walk even more and more vigorously than I already do, practice yoga, and breathe deeply.
And ML, you can bet your booties if they bill me for this debacle (and I’m with jed; I’m sure they will), I’ll politely but firmly explain why that’s not a workable plan.
Wow Claire you turned my joke into a bad prediction, I truly apologize for that.
You need to do what you need to do, resources should not hold you back on making the best decision, I feel there are many of us that would be willing to help too.
This whole thing doesn’t sound right and makes me question whether there was any maleficence on the part of your unqualified doctor who may have liabilities that could be transferred into helping pay for the needed surgery, insurance companies (which all doctors have to have protection from) have a habit of settling instead of fighting in court where a jury may go with the needs of the patient over the mistakes of a physician. Lawyers that feel they have a good chance of success will handle such cases for a percentage. Exploring that option may have no or little out of pocket cost if handled correctly.
Re: the “scary” side of Trump, this is from Will Grigg at The Libertarian Institute:
“Apart from employees of the executive branch, or active-duty members of the military who have been called into service by Congress, no American really has a “president.” The office was intended to be peripheral to the daily concerns of Americans, rather than the central focus of their existence. What a wonderful thing it would be if Americans of all persuasions adopted the motto “Not My President” – and then learned to regard the state itself with the proper mixture of hostility and contempt.”
https://www.libertarianinstitute.org/justice/not-president-no-matter/